Many people make someone as the source of their life and completeness. So when someone say “YOU COMPLETE ME” as Tom Cruise said in his movie. They’re wrong ‘coz only Christ completes us.
Don’t get attracted to someone who only gives us their sweet words rather get attracted to someone who has ambitions and especially who loved God first.
A man who loved God first will lead you into a great reward. A man must be the one who would lead his girl.
When we choose a man, make sure he has a game plan. A game plan that will lead into eternity. Man should decide to love the girl they’re going to marry. If you are pursuing a girl and not even thinking about marriage, forget courting a girl it is a waste of her time. Don’t just court the girl because you want to but you’re going to lead her.
Many people don’t have lasting relationships when they treat their boyfriend/ girlfriend as their source of joy, happiness, contentment, fulfillment and completeness. Only Christ can do that. Only Christ can play that role.
On the practical side, entertaining someone who is not of the same faith and passion as you have for Christ would create a lot of tension in the relationship.
In fact, don’t ever think that you are the instrument that God will use to change him to become a better person. Only God can change him and he might even be going to church not because of Jesus but because of you – to impress you. Find a man who will change himself not for you but for himself.
Remember: Wait more and hear from God first before taking your relationship to the next level..
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